The most important part of a relationship is to be able to be yourself and be loved. Not despite you being you, but because of it. Love is not like Hollywood wants us to think about it. It is beautiful and romantic and chaotic and messy and it can hurt and it can feel great and it can be all of that at the same time. And a lot more. But if it’s not you who is loved, but some play you have to set up, why even bother?