Growing up there was very much a mantra of you don’t know how to fuck unless you’ve fucked a bunch of random people.
Which could be true if using another body to masturbate is the same as fucking.
It turns out many women are coded to experience pleasure most when they feel safe. This doesn’t apply to every women and that doesn’t mean you can’t experiment consensually but a ONS is really not conducive to maximizing pleasure in my opinion.
I prefer building a relationship, exploring affection and intimacy and then fucking. Is it masculine? Depends who you ask. But if it isn’t then that’s a problem with how we define it in my opinion.
Some ppl romantacize and overthink everything like in the comic(me), some don’t and just live life. In the end, most ppl don’t care about that. And hookup culture isn’t really them fucking complete strangers, they’re usually friends first or communicate in some way.
Never related to hookup culture.
Growing up there was very much a mantra of you don’t know how to fuck unless you’ve fucked a bunch of random people.
Which could be true if using another body to masturbate is the same as fucking.
It turns out many women are coded to experience pleasure most when they feel safe. This doesn’t apply to every women and that doesn’t mean you can’t experiment consensually but a ONS is really not conducive to maximizing pleasure in my opinion.
I prefer building a relationship, exploring affection and intimacy and then fucking. Is it masculine? Depends who you ask. But if it isn’t then that’s a problem with how we define it in my opinion.
Some ppl romantacize and overthink everything like in the comic(me), some don’t and just live life. In the end, most ppl don’t care about that. And hookup culture isn’t really them fucking complete strangers, they’re usually friends first or communicate in some way.