Understand that women aren’t lying when they say they’ve had awful experiences with men, and that even though I’m a nice guy, they have absolutely no reason to believe that I’m any different if they’ve never met me before. How a woman that I don’t know feels about me doesn’t matter at all to me, because the women that I do know have no problems with me.
On the surface it seems analogous, but it really isn’t. White people don’t have uniquely bad experiences with black people that they don’t also have with other white people, and that black people don’t also have with other black people. This isn’t true of men and women. Nearly every woman has a story of that time a man wouldnt leave her alone and started threatening her. Some men have that kind of experience with a woman, and very very few people have that kind of experience with some of the same sex
So if white people mostly had bad experiences with black people and usually not with other white people, do you think it would be OK to say derogatory things about black people as a group? Merely based on the color of their skin?
I could put in the effort to write a while paragraph I response to this, but we’re deep enough in this thread that nobody else is likely to ever see it, and I know you aren’t smart enough to change your opinion on things when given good reason to. I’ll just leave it at this: nobody in this comic or comments section is saying derogatory things about men as a group based solely on their sex
Oh what the hell, I’ll write a proper response before I block you
If black people were almost universally taller, stronger, and faster than white people, and virtually every single white person had had experiences being threatened by a black person in a way that they’d never been threatened by another white person, and in a way that the vast majority of black people had never been threatened by a white person, and in a way that the vast majority of black people had never been threatened by another black person, then it would make sense for white people to exercise extra caution around black people that they’d never met. It still wouldn’t be okay to say derogatory things about black people as a group merely based on the color of their skin.
It’s a good thing nobody is making derogatory statements about men based solely on their sex here.
Admit which things are bad or not, understand why they are bad or not, and chose to not do the things that are bad
See the distinction between others and you
If you do things and you learn that they are bad and hurt others, work on it to understand what’s going on and make a better decision, don’t feel insulted and get mad at people telling you that something you did is hurting others
Don’t take things personally as an attack on yourself, don’t bind your identity to a larger group
I’ve gone my entire life without hating myself for being a man. It’s super easy
Pray tell your secrets. Deafness? Overblown ego?
Understand that women aren’t lying when they say they’ve had awful experiences with men, and that even though I’m a nice guy, they have absolutely no reason to believe that I’m any different if they’ve never met me before. How a woman that I don’t know feels about me doesn’t matter at all to me, because the women that I do know have no problems with me.
Sorry I don’t buy that, for the same reason that I don’t buy the same kind of argument about people of color.
On the surface it seems analogous, but it really isn’t. White people don’t have uniquely bad experiences with black people that they don’t also have with other white people, and that black people don’t also have with other black people. This isn’t true of men and women. Nearly every woman has a story of that time a man wouldnt leave her alone and started threatening her. Some men have that kind of experience with a woman, and very very few people have that kind of experience with some of the same sex
So if white people mostly had bad experiences with black people and usually not with other white people, do you think it would be OK to say derogatory things about black people as a group? Merely based on the color of their skin?
I could put in the effort to write a while paragraph I response to this, but we’re deep enough in this thread that nobody else is likely to ever see it, and I know you aren’t smart enough to change your opinion on things when given good reason to. I’ll just leave it at this: nobody in this comic or comments section is saying derogatory things about men as a group based solely on their sexOh what the hell, I’ll write a proper response before I block you
If black people were almost universally taller, stronger, and faster than white people, and virtually every single white person had had experiences being threatened by a black person in a way that they’d never been threatened by another white person, and in a way that the vast majority of black people had never been threatened by a white person, and in a way that the vast majority of black people had never been threatened by another black person, then it would make sense for white people to exercise extra caution around black people that they’d never met. It still wouldn’t be okay to say derogatory things about black people as a group merely based on the color of their skin.
It’s a good thing nobody is making derogatory statements about men based solely on their sex here.
Recognize what others do that you don’t do
Admit which things are bad or not, understand why they are bad or not, and chose to not do the things that are bad
See the distinction between others and you
If you do things and you learn that they are bad and hurt others, work on it to understand what’s going on and make a better decision, don’t feel insulted and get mad at people telling you that something you did is hurting others
Don’t take things personally as an attack on yourself, don’t bind your identity to a larger group
I would like to add that it is really not that hard to do, all things considered.
Good for you