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Wow, a very useful and visual summery of disagreement types! Will use it a lot

Should’ve mentioned that, I think

I have a male Ukrainian friend. His girlfriend lived in a student dormitory in another part of the city when the “busification” started. One day a neighbour of hers tried to rape her, and when she started to resist, he punched her in the abdomen area so hard she got a serious vaginal bleeding. My friend obviously wanted to rush to the dormitory to beat the fuck out of the guy and help his girlfriend but he simply couldn’t because he would immediately get enrolled and sent to the warzone. And this is almost a good story compared to others I’ve heard…

I mean just find a Ukrainian online and talk to them. Every young man from Ukraine knows really well what “busification” is and has experienced it themselves or has friends who have.

Bad relationship with their parents in their childhood taught them to be afraid of being in a close relationship. This is both extremely messed up and tragic.

I literally know a woman whose parents hated each other, but chose to stay “for her”. Guess what, she’s still single in her 50s, because her notion of love and closeness is just so completely messed up…

Also her father died of alcoholism.